3/28/2014

Autumn Break

Story Sent in by Deborah:

I had a good group of friends in college and Kevin was among them. We started seeing each other just before summer break after sophomore year. We lived a couple of hundred miles away from each other and we both had cars, so we kept up the relationship into junior year.

Early fall semester, Kevin and I went to the party of a mutual friend, Julia. While at the party, I lost track of Kevin but eventually found him... making out with Julia.

A little angry and a lot hurt, I left. Someone must've said something to Kevin, though, because he caught up with me down the sidewalk and stopped me.

"What's up?" he asked.

"Um... you making out with Julia? Ring a bell?"

He nodded and said, "So?"

"So... you and I are... were exclusive."

He rolled his eyes. "Why are you being selfish? I wanted Julia for a long time. When the opp came to take her, I wasn't passing it up. You kidding me?"

I was speechless. He went on, "And now I left her back at her party to play damage control with you. You made me be rude to her, and that's really selfish."

I didn't have a response for him. I simply turned away and pulled out my phone. He hurried right back to the party. But not before I texted Julia (as mentioned, we were all friends) that Kevin had just run out of her party to beg me not to tell her that he had herpes.

Of course, I wasn't at the rest of the party, but I was told that Kevin left not long after he returned to it. As far as I could tell, he and Julia didn't end up seeing each other, and he never spoke to me again.

6 comments:

  1. Considering Julia probably knew Kevin and OP were in a relationship... OP should have just let Julia have him, they were obviously perfect for each other. Maybe that's what seems off about this story to me: the OP was mad at Kevin, but not Julia, and tried to scare her off instead of texting "hey, in case you didn't know, Kevin and I were dating until tonight, but he's all yours now!"

    Let scumbags pair off with each other, says I, and leave the dating pool marginally cleaner for the rest of us.

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  2. "So... you and I are... *were* exclusive."

    OP *is* selfish and jealous. She has no right to impose her arbitrary rules on Kevin about whom he is allowed or whom he is not allowed to make out with; it is none of OP's business. If it bothers her so much, she should have just kept on walking rather than retaliating by lying to Julia.

    :).

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  3. @luna-lena-I thought the same thing too. If they were all friends, Julie would have known that the OP and Kevin were in a relationship. It is possible thought they were keeping it under wraps and her friend didn't know. Not likely though.

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  4. I got the impression that he DID know they were exclusive. If he didn't know then he wouldn't have just rolled his eyes and tried to justify his actions. If someone I was dating casually said something like that to me, I would have pointed out that we had never had that conversation and was entitled to make out with whoever I wanted. He did not do that at all.

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  5. I agree Sierra. Even if they didn't discuss exclusivity, they attended the party together and making out with someone else even on a casual date is pretty shitty

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  6. I'm with OP, Sierra H, and Kez.

    Too bad OP caught herpes in the process though.

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