Is There a "Best Way" to Convey Desperation?

Email Sent in by Melissa:

(Melissa says: "Andrew and I went out once but decided mutually that we had no chemistry. He asked me out again a year later.  I said I was 'busy' and this is what I received in reply:")

Hi Melissa,

Busy can be a good thing. Obviously, depending on what you’re busy with! ;-)

Part of the reason why I steered away from you was because you mentioned that you have college debt. Some debt wouldn’t have been a problem for me, but I assumed your debt was large. At the time, large debt was something I didn’t want to take on. However, I’ve grown in my understanding of ways some large debts can be dealt with, so that obstacle isn’t as big a deal to me anymore. I’m now open to discussing debt, having a plan to pay it off through some future term, and etc.

Okay, email is not the best way to do this, but… Can you please go out on another date with me? I know you don’t want to, but can you just do it anyway?

God bless,


  1. Is it Desperation Day already?

  2. Thankfully a second date with Andrew, isn't something that you have to do even though you don't want to.

  3. You are totaly wrong. He has a new job as "financial advisor " now and is only interested in You professionaly!


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