tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post6831557050390284126..comments2023-10-10T12:33:43.016-04:00Comments on A Bad Case of the Dates: Downtown GirlJMGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18362998962851574254noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-48642996452006855122014-12-16T14:45:26.007-05:002014-12-16T14:45:26.007-05:00Team OP. If this had been me I would have left him...Team OP. If this had been me I would have left him as soon as he suggested getting off purposefully at the wrong stop.Conniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06213563190078338707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-62687681853770309302014-12-12T01:13:17.054-05:002014-12-12T01:13:17.054-05:00Team OP here. Either he is a control freak or he w...Team OP here. Either he is a control freak or he was trying to ditch her. I'm leaning towards the former because he kept insisting that she go with him. Though he did ask if she wanted to call it quits....<br /><br />I also don't blame OP for going along with it. If someone was like 'hey, let's go across town!' I'd give him the benefit of the doubt. And then he started acting strange what with the getting out at the wrong stop, she was probably just too bamboozled at that point. Wouldn't want to do all that hard work and nothing to show for it!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-53522249160888631352014-12-12T01:08:59.801-05:002014-12-12T01:08:59.801-05:00I'm glad two other people saw how nutso this g...I'm glad two other people saw how nutso this guy seemed. Though the story sounded like complaining, the issues brought up were totally reasonable; he just wasn't a considerate guy.Snarkastichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08840791377662211373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-26928791700064182172014-12-10T10:56:34.755-05:002014-12-10T10:56:34.755-05:00@A Limone: I'm with you, dude sounds like a co...@A Limone: I'm with you, dude sounds like a control freak. At best, he has limited social skills. If he wanted to traipse all over the city, he could have at least asked the OP if she would like to do instead of being all "I want to do this, so this what we're doing. What's your problem?" I can't believe people are saying OP is the bad date for being pissed of by that behavior. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07276448086911983150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-62789148046719792622014-12-10T09:35:39.597-05:002014-12-10T09:35:39.597-05:00Guy is a control freak. Making her meet him, makin...Guy is a control freak. Making her meet him, making her get off the subway early and walking past the place. He was testing to see how much he could control her. OP admits she was frustrated, she wasn't the bad date. She wasn't getting answers either. If the guy said, I thought of Emma Rae's, but thought we'd have more time to get to know each other…different story. He wanted her to do is bidding.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13023209820031403843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-20922137442779053572014-12-09T10:01:04.771-05:002014-12-09T10:01:04.771-05:00Agree, OP was clearly the bad date here. Probably ...Agree, OP was clearly the bad date here. Probably a dinner whore, getting all bend out of shape because Ramon wasn't delivering the goods fast enough.Tourist of Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15869795168165679169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-72856637054998321112014-12-09T09:01:32.494-05:002014-12-09T09:01:32.494-05:00I know Architect was having a bit of fun, but seri...I know Architect was having a bit of fun, but seriously the OP complained the whole time....even before they actually met up. Would it have killed you to go with it for a while and spend the time getting to know him instead of being in such a hurry to get your free meal?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17528799806545038661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-29746891270541742092014-12-09T05:52:20.521-05:002014-12-09T05:52:20.521-05:00OP, he didn't return. He was ditching you. Y...OP, he didn't return. He was ditching you. You turned a <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahMjV3ku4qw" rel="nofollow">nice walk</a> into a bitch-fest when you could have used that time to get to know each other. Bet you had to meet him at his <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hCuMWrfXG4E" rel="nofollow">day job too.</a><br /><br />(Oh come on, you know someone had to do it)The Architecthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05380470624299599025noreply@blogger.com