tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post4475367616011305246..comments2023-10-10T12:33:43.016-04:00Comments on A Bad Case of the Dates: Lady and the CampJMGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18362998962851574254noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-5723482337540869202010-07-22T13:35:59.825-04:002010-07-22T13:35:59.825-04:00Totally agree with above ^Totally agree with above ^Sinnnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-38695359032372400842010-06-30T12:43:19.168-04:002010-06-30T12:43:19.168-04:00I limit my sexcapades purely to my enemies. And i...I limit my sexcapades purely to my enemies. And isn't that why God made roofies?Loco Moconoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-44805196447301953062010-06-30T10:12:05.294-04:002010-06-30T10:12:05.294-04:00"I've got a deeply ingrained Oedipal Comp..."I've got a deeply ingrained Oedipal Complex, which makes dating difficult. I have a job that doesn't make me feel fulfilled, but it pays well enough that I can afford to take girls out on dates and act like a big shot when I pay for them. Mostly I whack off and play video games with my bros. I'm not a cat person. Oh, and I'm not on the sex offender registry."Claire (and Nikki)https://www.blogger.com/profile/03946625511421997222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-43075097620160865372010-06-29T17:11:19.770-04:002010-06-29T17:11:19.770-04:00The five sentences are:
"Mostly I whack off....The five sentences are:<br /><br />"Mostly I whack off. I've been allowed to penetrate a few people, but they've usualy been inebriated. I only remember a few of their names. Would you be interested in suplementing my masterbation routine? I've never molested a bear."Fizzikshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10250419387011790014noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-49137184008290428072010-06-29T15:16:33.212-04:002010-06-29T15:16:33.212-04:00I can't help being curious about the "fiv...I can't help being curious about the "five sentences". Are they standard? What are they?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-8897280426373736062010-06-28T14:10:48.968-04:002010-06-28T14:10:48.968-04:00The guy didn't bring this up - he was telling ...The guy didn't bring this up - he was telling a story about bears or some crap like that.<br />He was just honest at the questions. <br />Really - none of you have ever slept with someone you called a friend? Precisely what rock are you penning your comments from?nomatophobiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17765718970953715165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-28862089886296058742010-06-28T09:57:16.285-04:002010-06-28T09:57:16.285-04:00I'm glad to see the comments here are mature, ...I'm glad to see the comments here are mature, unlike the usual.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-63342008880356120492010-06-28T09:18:04.195-04:002010-06-28T09:18:04.195-04:008:56 - Even if the sex with a "friend" h...8:56 - Even if the sex with a "friend" happened several years ago? Because people (or is it just men) can't change? <br /><br />I went to a small, liberal arts school; the only people to have sex with were your friends b/c you pretty much knew everybody. I'm still friends with a good number of the people I've had sex with, but I definitely have learned to broaden my dating pool now that I'm an adult. For someone to hold past indiscretions against people like me and the OP (especially when there are no long-term negative side-effects like STIs)is really sad. Granted, I wouldn't go talking about all the sex with friends I had in college on a first date, but chances are, if I'm telling a story about something silly a friend from college did, that friend is going to be someone I've seen naked. It happens.Claire (and Nikki)https://www.blogger.com/profile/03946625511421997222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-47926478705875754282010-06-27T18:14:04.321-04:002010-06-27T18:14:04.321-04:00Great title by the way.Great title by the way.Seven-thirtynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-63956078680419677822010-06-27T17:09:46.805-04:002010-06-27T17:09:46.805-04:009:18 - Yeah, I forgot that I was entering my name ...9:18 - Yeah, I forgot that I was entering my name and not posting anonymously. I provided the gender clarification because I think most people would assume that an anonymous poster talking about having casual sex with friends with no emotional attachment is a man.<br /><br />I'd like to point out, they were swapping stories and he brought up one about a friend that he thought was funny. *She* was the one who asked about the sexual aspect. The OP did no wrong here.Julienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-32408755239658919432010-06-27T08:56:53.133-04:002010-06-27T08:56:53.133-04:00I have to admit that if a guy casually told me he ...I have to admit that if a guy casually told me he had sex with his "friend" I wouldn't see him again. I would be worried about his maturity level, his ability to commit, and also about whether he had an STD. Just being honest. I wouldn't go all nuts like she did though. I just wouldn't go on a second date.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-3862539770838469302010-06-27T08:04:04.465-04:002010-06-27T08:04:04.465-04:00Well I do agree that the girl in this case was ask...Well I do agree that the girl in this case was asking questions that were out of bounds and overreacting to them, could have been that in the past she was burned by some cheating partner and that was rearing its ugly head. Maybe she needs to deal with whatever trust issues and insecurity problems she has before jumping into the dating pool.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-87261099828028580432010-06-27T05:43:45.808-04:002010-06-27T05:43:45.808-04:00Yes, the girl was a little persistent and immature...Yes, the girl was a little persistent and immature about the situation, but the OP should know better than to bring that up on a first date. Rule #1: never tell stories about other girls to girls you're dating, no matter how innocent they may seem. They don't want to hear it. End of story.Camillanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-89383177891473173872010-06-27T05:13:48.852-04:002010-06-27T05:13:48.852-04:00I don't see why the person you're in a rel...I don't see why the person you're in a relationship with can't be your friend at the same time.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-56787811322711607762010-06-27T04:38:10.749-04:002010-06-27T04:38:10.749-04:00Past romantic/sexual history...
Generally it is n...Past romantic/sexual history...<br /><br />Generally it is not a good subject for a sober first date. Guys don't want to hear about how into someone else a woman was. The sexual aspect awakes jealousy and the emotional part is irritating. (I mean, why the fuck do I want to hear about this other guy?)<br /><br />If her ex was cool and accomplished, it feels like a comparison that she doesn't think other men can live up to. If her exes were jerks, then a guy starts wondering why he's next in line. Sort of like Groucho Marx not wanting to be a member of a club that would have him.<br /><br />For women, who both desire and dislike being sexually objectified, I imagine the comparison with other women is not pleasant.<br /><br />It's hard to say from the OP's account whether he was baiting Helen with the girl scared of the bear story. He specifically mentions the woman by name in this account (Samantha). If he mentioned her name in his story, that would be a warning bell for the woman.<br /><br />Why after three years would it be necessary to bring up Samantha, of all friends, the girl who made sex in a tent more exciting because she pretended that she wanted to be on the bottom hiding under the guy in case the bear swatted the tent.<br /><br />Sometimes the rules are made to be broken, though.Seven-thirtynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-14265853493094519012010-06-26T22:09:25.597-04:002010-06-26T22:09:25.597-04:00BTW, I write that assuming one has a safe sexual h...BTW, I write that assuming one has a safe sexual history and doesn't need to discuss physical "issues," if they get to the point of gettin some...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-4575977171605497912010-06-26T22:05:19.691-04:002010-06-26T22:05:19.691-04:00The best policy is to not talk about past sexual p...The best policy is to not talk about past sexual partners. Period. Maybe if someone was a very, very important partner, but only if you really trust the person you're telling. This is ALWAYS dangerous territory and best left alone, especially in the beginning.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-70697966174710217872010-06-26T21:18:23.060-04:002010-06-26T21:18:23.060-04:00Some people are used to bad break ups, some people...Some people are used to bad break ups, some people have split up with people because it just wasn't meant to be and can still be friends.<br /><br />Julie, thanks for pointing out you're female ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-23679433533909662382010-06-26T12:22:59.792-04:002010-06-26T12:22:59.792-04:00I've had sex with people who are still my frie...I've had sex with people who are still my friends (female, btw). Why should that set off alarm bells? I'd guess that most people wind up sleeping with one of their friends at one point, or remain friends with an ex.Julienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-64381780026683269972010-06-26T11:36:02.914-04:002010-06-26T11:36:02.914-04:00Why did you put "slept" in quotes?Why did you put "slept" in quotes?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-27273148624631669972010-06-26T11:08:07.552-04:002010-06-26T11:08:07.552-04:00i will say this of that situation, i can see where...i will say this of that situation, i can see where you'd have alarms because her persistant questioning would signify a touch of a jealous streak..with that i'll add, being that i'm a female, it's usually not a good sign in your favor (i'm sure she got the same alarms) that you "slept" with a girl you call a "friend"..your honesty was good, but sometimes some stories are better left untold...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com