tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post2168683865481317364..comments2023-10-10T12:33:43.016-04:00Comments on A Bad Case of the Dates: He Niced Us to DeathJMGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18362998962851574254noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-3030567690789812842010-06-08T20:30:24.162-04:002010-06-08T20:30:24.162-04:00The OP sounds a bit jerky.The OP sounds a bit jerky.J.L.Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04397608743850192965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-25658064230150116922010-02-28T12:04:41.560-05:002010-02-28T12:04:41.560-05:00what do you tell a girl with 2 black eyes? nothing...what do you tell a girl with 2 black eyes? nothing, that bitch done been told twice.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-78368267161835371062010-02-23T14:37:21.711-05:002010-02-23T14:37:21.711-05:00LOL, 12:40!!!!LOL, 12:40!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-51116884801098608262010-02-23T12:40:22.609-05:002010-02-23T12:40:22.609-05:00When a girl says they want to be treated nicely, t...When a girl says they want to be treated nicely, they don't mean it. They just want to lay there and let you "take your pleasure".Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-63461829988929034792010-02-23T10:03:33.337-05:002010-02-23T10:03:33.337-05:00Tolerance and time? Ugh. I've dated those &quo...Tolerance and time? Ugh. I've dated those "bending over backwards because I'm SOOOOOO grateful you're dating me" types before, and they don't get better over time, they get worse. They use their niceness and over-eagerness to please to make you feel guilty any time you disagree with them over something or want to hang out with your other friends or, GOD FORBID, break up with them because the chemistry isn't there. It's a form of emotional abuse, frankly. She did the right thing by looking for someone who can hold his own in a relationship and not lay there like a worshiping puppy.Claire (and Nikki)https://www.blogger.com/profile/03946625511421997222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-13170871529188452752010-02-22T17:17:02.672-05:002010-02-22T17:17:02.672-05:00The guy was obviously nervous and was trying his b...The guy was obviously nervous and was trying his best, albeit a little too hard, maybe a little tolerance and time would have sorted it out?<br />It would be interesting to hear the other side of this.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-47469620478338211042010-02-21T23:22:34.222-05:002010-02-21T23:22:34.222-05:00nice guys don't finish last, I hate hearing th...nice guys don't finish last, I hate hearing that. usually a woman isn't attracted to them because they act like pussies. We don't want a pushover. and in our defense, assholes are never assholes upfront, it may take us a while to see through their plays... <br /><br />5:02 was right, we want men who have lives of their own, aren't pushovers, don't grovel, or act like lap dogs. <br /><br />and, I hate how people have these notions that jsut because you liek someone, their obligated to like you back. They just might not be into you!Lizzienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-17884616481766292842010-02-21T19:00:22.938-05:002010-02-21T19:00:22.938-05:00is it just me or is this written very awkwardly?is it just me or is this written very awkwardly?M.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-11492596949792652762010-02-21T17:02:46.553-05:002010-02-21T17:02:46.553-05:00"it was pretty clear that he was interested i..."it was pretty clear that he was interested in more than mere friendship" - That is the case most of the time. He'd rather hang out with you and forgo his buddies because you have boobs.<br /><br />Nice is a euphemism for "weak". Weak is not attractive and by trying too hard this guy blew any chance he may have had. Unfortunately, a lot men are unaware of this not keeping their emotions in check falling victim to the "too happy to be there" syndrome. <br /><br />If you were a shitty person, then you could have bilked him out of time and money because he would have happily been your doormat.<br /><br />Chicks just want a guy they are physically attracted to for which they are interested in and is not a pushover but in a sense a challenge. You always hear about the nice guy and the asshole/macho guy. The guy who falls in between these extremes is what women are looking for. <br /><br />But of course there are always the outliers. For instance, some women want a nice guy to dominate because they are into power and control more so than a romantic relationship.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-83208320532425639852010-02-21T14:03:18.145-05:002010-02-21T14:03:18.145-05:00(Way too) Nice guys never finish.. ever.(Way too) Nice guys never finish.. ever.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com