tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post2149490206415575455..comments2023-10-10T12:33:43.016-04:00Comments on A Bad Case of the Dates: Splitting UpJMGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18362998962851574254noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-36537041020905536472012-12-04T19:20:35.772-05:002012-12-04T19:20:35.772-05:00Is it not also possible that she's an introver...Is it not also possible that she's an introvert?!DizRosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13710024503809357568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-60043615612776685842012-09-21T10:15:42.674-04:002012-09-21T10:15:42.674-04:00Steve, she has a personality offline, they talked ...Steve, she has a personality offline, they talked on the phone, according to him they had great conversations on the phone.Blue Bluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00553486838908789289noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-57706053465923413062012-09-21T10:13:46.009-04:002012-09-21T10:13:46.009-04:00She might have online, but explain why she could h...She might have online, but explain why she could have good conversations on the phone. Because he says in his story.Blue Bluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00553486838908789289noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-71793229854948744582012-09-21T06:44:30.321-04:002012-09-21T06:44:30.321-04:00Asking someone I'd they are okay is different ...Asking someone I'd they are okay is different than just being upfront and asking snout the behavior are two different things. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-53147440958799521292012-09-21T02:29:22.273-04:002012-09-21T02:29:22.273-04:00He did ask her about it via email. Twice.He did ask her about it via email. Twice.Ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13733974260099709340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-19725709306497603922012-09-21T01:29:37.474-04:002012-09-21T01:29:37.474-04:00I think its possible she could have some sort of a...I think its possible she could have some sort of anxiety or social phobia about meeting someone offline. Or its extremely possible she was just nervous. Instead of "confronting this head on" and demanding to know if she was shy (which I'm sure helps with the anxiety), I might have just mentioned it in an email. The veil of the internet communication might allow her to be more liberated in her communication. <br /><br />By her reaction I doubt this is the first time its come up. Eitehr way dating someone who acts like they don't want to be there isn't any fun and its obvious y'all had a different outlook on things. Kudos for just cutting your losses and moving on. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-49826253810023462892012-09-20T14:17:28.943-04:002012-09-20T14:17:28.943-04:00I think benanov's on the right track. She pro...I think benanov's on the right track. She probably has someone else, a roommate, friend, or relative writing her messages for her or at least editing them. Anyway, bullet dodged, no point dating someone who clearly isn't enjoying the experience.Andrew Lenahanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14801508126208476261noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-11949672533997774352012-09-20T12:48:06.130-04:002012-09-20T12:48:06.130-04:00It's not too unbelievable and far-fetched to c...It's not too unbelievable and far-fetched to consider that there are people who really are in deep denial about themselves out there. Deep, deep denial.churrohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02179856538353101342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-8237146931932076032012-09-20T10:32:31.108-04:002012-09-20T10:32:31.108-04:00She could have a online dating manager/personal as...She could have a online dating manager/personal assistant. Who knows.<br /><br />I was going to say "she thinks you smell" but honestly that wouldn't lead to a second date.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-47301062132543985332012-09-20T10:17:36.826-04:002012-09-20T10:17:36.826-04:00Um, hello... she's a hot ballerina with two ba...Um, hello... she's a hot ballerina with two bachelor degrees. You expect her to have a personality (offline) too?! Picky picky! YOU'RE the man... YOU do all the talking while in public!<br /><br />No, I don't really feel this way... but sadly, have met some girls who did...Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18116238257904876572noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-63959521146136923212012-09-20T09:17:35.377-04:002012-09-20T09:17:35.377-04:00Having two selves would explain two bachelor's...Having two selves would explain two bachelor's degrees...JMGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18362998962851574254noreply@blogger.com