tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post8498228340258791092..comments2023-10-10T12:33:43.016-04:00Comments on A Bad Case of the Dates: Why Romance Is DeadJMGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18362998962851574254noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-32494191540934318782013-03-01T13:43:48.398-05:002013-03-01T13:43:48.398-05:00The OP is the crazy one for thinking she'd be ...The OP is the crazy one for thinking she'd be OK with him sleeping there without her knowledge. All of the people saying that she' overreacted by having a bat would be berating her for *not* having it if she were telling the story he'd turned out to be violent.<br /><br />"She swung the bat at me, and I took that as my cue to leave."<br /><br />Really? Why didn't you take "I'm calling the cops if you're not gone in 10 seconds" as your cue to leave? Why are you asking someone holding a bat and threatening to call the cops if they're OK? You weren't being punished for a good deed, OP, you got a bat swung at you because you wouldn't take her at her word that she wanted you gone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-23158582641112999922013-02-19T12:17:18.906-05:002013-02-19T12:17:18.906-05:00so, villy, your comment has me confused - she invi...so, villy, your comment has me confused - she invited the stranger into her house. she let the stranger drive her home. and seemingly ok'd a stranger to take her keys and retrieve her car. so if her thought of him is "stranger," then why would she have been game for any of that?<br /><br />i am also interested in what you would say about all those strangers from first and second dates i brought home to smush...? are you saying these were bad decisions? sometimes a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do. nrrdcorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14748389165650925708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-76746474341138686842013-02-17T14:02:35.292-05:002013-02-17T14:02:35.292-05:00A Bad case of the 50 First Dates.A Bad case of the 50 First Dates.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01191777033345370832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-42990412513988447962013-02-15T14:39:05.718-05:002013-02-15T14:39:05.718-05:00That isn't the point. Without further informat...That isn't the point. Without further information (like, they were old friend, etc) I have to assume that second date means they barely know each other. For all intents and purposes, second date is still practically strangers. You would want a stranger in your house, overnight, while you were passed out sick? And what if it was just a ploy? "I'm not having a good time, I'll pretend to be sick." Then he decides not to leave? Granted, I'm a big fan of just saying, "not interested" but we all know that a lot of people use tricks to get out of a date, and now this guy didn't take the hint. I'm still Team OP, because that bitch was insane, I'm just saying it wasn't the smartest decision to make.Villyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06105135531977366307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-62476119850796441882013-02-15T09:28:59.404-05:002013-02-15T09:28:59.404-05:00I think staying over was overkill too, but her rea...I think staying over was overkill too, but her reaction was way over the top. She swung the bat. Cray.SmallCityGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09382801445745259229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-53802479806467961062013-02-15T09:01:57.680-05:002013-02-15T09:01:57.680-05:00Seconded.Seconded.Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18116238257904876572noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-14491114285999876902013-02-15T08:20:06.021-05:002013-02-15T08:20:06.021-05:00OP, it's almost like you don't read storie...OP, it's almost like you don't read stories on this site. With the amount of crazies out there, I'm kinda siding with the chica.<br /><br />Maybe it was a little extreme on her end (maybe... maybe not), but considering she probably just woke up mid-way through a drug induced coma to find a stranger laying on her coach, I'm still siding with her.Shoehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16097945277233309185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-55453890897959712332013-02-15T07:47:53.821-05:002013-02-15T07:47:53.821-05:00OP neglected to mention that he'd smeared hims...OP neglected to mention that he'd smeared himself in butter and maple syrup and was wearing a pair of her underwear.The Architecthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11647156183428925648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-27151657806425628742013-02-15T03:17:38.520-05:002013-02-15T03:17:38.520-05:00He was on the sofa, it's not like she woke up ...He was on the sofa, it's not like she woke up next to him.Ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13733974260099709340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-8331414151644783182013-02-14T18:25:56.019-05:002013-02-14T18:25:56.019-05:00I know you had the best of intentions, and chick w...I know you had the best of intentions, and chick was definitely hailing from crazytown, but you shouldn't have taken it upon yourself to stay. It was your SECOND date, I'd have been a little weirded out too. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com