tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post6698395313622555531..comments2023-10-10T12:33:43.016-04:00Comments on A Bad Case of the Dates: Rhymes With "Ditch"JMGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18362998962851574254noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-64611111257905312932011-11-15T11:08:33.400-05:002011-11-15T11:08:33.400-05:00Moral of the story:
Bitches Be Crazy.
I believe ...Moral of the story:<br /><br />Bitches Be Crazy.<br /><br />I believe that the dog incident was an accident and the girl over-reacted to it. I think she was looking for an "out" and this was it - go batshit crazy over a minor incident.B. Thayerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13192592599794356083noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-68744079148551439172011-11-09T18:02:49.832-05:002011-11-09T18:02:49.832-05:00Sounds like there is more to this story - rebuttal...Sounds like there is more to this story - rebuttal please.Hyperfocusedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01021456943593868061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-40157316198608226642011-11-09T01:37:26.911-05:002011-11-09T01:37:26.911-05:00^ I actually crossed a woman like this recently. ...^ I actually crossed a woman like this recently. She offered to show me her poetry blog, then said she didn't want me to see her, then challenged me to find it, but got pissed when I teased her about it... etc. I feel your analysis is dead-on accurate; it was 100% power-trip, combined with assertions of things I needed forgiveness for.wolfdreams01https://www.blogger.com/profile/17132744227210305134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-44749280717329911102011-11-08T20:36:02.583-05:002011-11-08T20:36:02.583-05:00"I'd rather you die than kick a dog"..."I'd rather you die than kick a dog" Sounds balanced in comparison? "I should follow you home to make sure you don't kick any more animals?" <br /><br />I'm not standing up for OP's right to kick animals, and I certainly can't speak for his character outside of this context, but I do find it easier to believe that the woman in question acted this way than that this guy randomly kicks dogs <i>while on a date</i>. (In his own free time, who knows.)<br /><br />Of course I could be wrong, but I've seen women behave like this: they're the women who are pathologically insecure, who assert what limited power they have in the form of baffling drama and guilt trips. She said she was leaving, and Martin didn't care: to women like that, that's the worst possible outcome. <br /><br />The best possible outcome would be something like, "baby, I swear to god, please, you gotta believe me, grovel grovel grovel, blah blah blah," until she finally deigns to forgive him. Then she's reaffirmed her sense of personal power.<br /><br />Since Martin didn't give her that opportunity, she upped the ante by saying "I'll follow you home." Again, I could be wrong, but that doesn't sound like "leave me alone, you evil dog-kicker." It looks like "I didn't get the attention I'd hoped for, but if he leaves I won't get any attention at all. Time for Plan B."<br /><br />It may not have been necessary for Martin to have resorted to threats of physical violence, but on the other hand, sometimes that's the only way to get through to some people.<br /><br />Anyway, that's my over-analysis, based on having had friends on Martin's side of similar situations. These friends weren't necessarily bastions of innocence, but the women's thinly veiled power-trips weren't hard to identify.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-905023001903503292011-11-08T17:22:20.106-05:002011-11-08T17:22:20.106-05:00I feel this whole story is a lieI feel this whole story is a lieNatty Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14482906644831494693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-17418882103212233942011-11-08T14:00:05.165-05:002011-11-08T14:00:05.165-05:00Actually, he's the one that comes off imbalanc...Actually, he's the one that comes off imbalanced in this scenario.theMediatorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04094065546143640494noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-88318668111967243762011-11-08T13:34:44.956-05:002011-11-08T13:34:44.956-05:00Based on the story as it was told, why the hell di...<i>Based on the story as it was told, why the hell did the OP start threatening her? Did he feel he was in any kind of danger?</i><br /><br />Provided the details of the story are true, an obvious psycho threatened to follow him to his house, so...yeah.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-87127761211285437732011-11-08T12:23:32.479-05:002011-11-08T12:23:32.479-05:00Me thinks the OP doth protest too much.
Sounds li...Me thinks the OP doth protest too much.<br /><br />Sounds like a serial dog kicker to me, trying to convince himself he's not.Joehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13605995951869419222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-45976947014079321682011-11-08T10:19:33.837-05:002011-11-08T10:19:33.837-05:00Based on the story as it was told, why the hell di...Based on the story as it was told, why the hell did the OP start threatening her? Did he feel he was in any kind of danger?theMediatorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04094065546143640494noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-24621270598767183882011-11-08T02:36:40.142-05:002011-11-08T02:36:40.142-05:00I'm going to use that threat from now on.. ...I'm going to use that threat from now on.. 'I'm going to scream so loud you'll die!!' Cause its very threatening. Obviously.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-82561862708494387122011-11-07T17:06:37.914-05:002011-11-07T17:06:37.914-05:00I'm with Jessie I want to here her side of the...I'm with Jessie I want to here her side of the story. It would be interesting to see b/c I just don't buy that she called the cops on him for just tripping over a dog even if he accidentally kicked it. There has to be more to this story... (then again bitch could just be crazy)BostonGreekGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11799463015092901410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-62861654825284487432011-11-07T14:48:49.736-05:002011-11-07T14:48:49.736-05:00Why'd you kick the dog, Dog Kicker?Why'd you kick the dog, Dog Kicker?Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18116238257904876572noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-80828016090654860372011-11-07T13:54:04.593-05:002011-11-07T13:54:04.593-05:00I have met crazy broads that thought hurting a but...I have met crazy broads that thought hurting a butterfly was criminal. I'm sorry but if you're that sensitive, I hear Tibet is lovely this time of year.churrohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02179856538353101342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-37568814653367412432011-11-07T13:42:41.607-05:002011-11-07T13:42:41.607-05:00This story sounds a bit unrealistic to me... I'...This story sounds a bit unrealistic to me... I'd love to see a retort.Jessie Lynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05137754240676967154noreply@blogger.com