tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post2902298702559632575..comments2023-10-10T12:33:43.016-04:00Comments on A Bad Case of the Dates: The Best Laid PlanesJMGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18362998962851574254noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-8031375900483212032012-11-01T08:19:48.385-04:002012-11-01T08:19:48.385-04:00^ This. And she didn't know how/want to tell ...^ This. And she didn't know how/want to tell him the truth about it, so she lied and said she arrived a few days earlier.Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18116238257904876572noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-13900112501830472602012-10-30T11:47:23.374-04:002012-10-30T11:47:23.374-04:00Dude, I am so not blaming the OP for his date'...Dude, I am so not blaming the OP for his date's shitty behavior. I think you're reading way more into my comments than what I'm actually putting in there. I don't expect anybody to be psychic and I don't expect anyone to be able to control anybody else's behavior. "Hey, you're better off not doing this in the future because these situations almost always suck, even when all parties have the best intentions." =/= "LOL OP YOU'RE A HORRIBLE SHITTY PERSON AND IT'S ALL YOUR FAULT YOUR DATE WAS A MASSIVE BAG OF DICKS"rawr the dinosaurhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06562904137578725651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-69783253393683847982012-10-29T19:45:07.520-04:002012-10-29T19:45:07.520-04:00Position* It's the phone, the
phone.Position* It's the phone, the <br />phone.Riahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09016848189875905796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-63494234078144920522012-10-29T19:34:27.245-04:002012-10-29T19:34:27.245-04:00Rawr, Your comment sounds like you were blaming th... Rawr, Your comment sounds like you were blaming the Op for date's bad behavior. Judging by given info OP comes across nothing but nice. (I know its his own account, still that's all we have. And we were to doubt, we can say the whole thing is fictional, where do you draw the line?) My own reaction would be to decline the offer if I feel not sure about intention. Op never put her in a poison where simple no wasn't an option, neither to offer to pick up nor to postponing the date. <br />However I fail to see what OP did wrong. why OP is being told that hey you were wrong to be way too nice, undertone being what do you expect other than somebody being total jerk to you. All I am saying is OP is not the one who is in need of changing behavior. It's the date. <br />Jesus, people! I'd never think there could be anything more black and white than this! Riahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09016848189875905796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-9527301951838465512012-10-29T08:08:17.444-04:002012-10-29T08:08:17.444-04:00LOL @ TheDevilYouKnow & Rawr!
You want to kno...LOL @ TheDevilYouKnow & Rawr!<br /><br />You want to know what really happened here, let me break it down for you: Phyllis was coming out of the Arrival gate and got a good look at our OP. Not saying Jeff is a CHUD or anything, Phyllis just didn't like what she saw. She left him standing there with nothing but a big sign that said "Phyllis I LOVE U!" in his hand. Totally how it went down.The Architecthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11647156183428925648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-73813775814190272342012-10-28T11:17:17.327-04:002012-10-28T11:17:17.327-04:00I didn't say the OP should have known she was ...I didn't say the OP should have known she was a bitch. I said that doing a huge, inconveniencing favor for someone you barely know is going too far. Picking someone up from the airport is typically a pain in the ass. The OP showed he was a good guy by going out of his way, but it was a favor Phyllis shouldn't have asked for from someone she barely knew.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-20488692643896341762012-10-27T20:37:25.445-04:002012-10-27T20:37:25.445-04:00I agree with rawr. A bit more context would help h...I agree with rawr. A bit more context would help here. I can't see anyone picking someone they barely know up from the airport but maybe the OP is just a really good guy and wanted to impress Phyllis with his awesome picking people up from the airport skills. <br /><br />Regardless, Phyllis sounds like a narcissistic bitch. What was the point in the whole charade? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-19214417136546144032012-10-27T20:34:43.306-04:002012-10-27T20:34:43.306-04:00I would have been like hey if you don't want t...I would have been like hey if you don't want to have a date with me that cool I have other plans too. Then she wouldn't have tried to give you the runaround.Blue Bluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00553486838908789289noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-11456437127537737292012-10-27T11:09:08.827-04:002012-10-27T11:09:08.827-04:00Biiiiiiiitch.Biiiiiiiitch.Maggiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09578040130121264340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186499665856075184.post-49397823443428891202012-10-27T11:05:15.804-04:002012-10-27T11:05:15.804-04:00Was Phyllis a friend or something before the sched...Was Phyllis a friend or something before the scheduled date? Because cool kids don't do pain-in-the-ass favors for people they don't know well; it never ends well and even if it is a legit favor and not somebody being a dick, it tends to majorly push on the boundaries of what little relationship actually is there.<br /><br />But now you know and knowing is half the battle.rawr the dinosaurhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06562904137578725651noreply@blogger.com